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Tony Robbins.

As a person who is admired deeply by my boyfriend Sky,
I've decided to give it a try to understand what is so deeply admired of him.

I've just started reading the article What is Self-Motivation? Sky tagged me in Facebook and only on the first paragraph it has already hit me with this sentence " As Tony Robbins has said, “The one common denominator of all successful people is their hunger to push through their fears.” When you have enough hunger, you can easily learn how to self-motivate to meet the goals you’ve set your mind and focus on.  "   
 
The article talks about not focusing on what you want but how you want to achieve it.
Of course, you need to be clear about what you want but think of ways to achieve it. It doesn't matter if Plan A fails, there's always B, C and 23 other alphabets for test and trial.

Emotions plays a big part on how you want to achieve your goals. If you succeed for the first time, good job but if you don't, learn from the experience and try again. As long as you stay positive and stay motivated.

While talking about the article, it's really hard to find words to describe like he does.
So I would definitely recommend You to read it directly from the article. 

 I've asked myself these questions. Do you have the hunger to achieve? Can you self-motivate?
Honestly, I'm lost as always but I really do hope that while I am still reading Tony Robbins' work, it will inspire me and give me the idea to find what I really want and ways I need to achieve it.

Ask yourself the same question. What's your answer? Are you close to your goal?


#midnightpost

signing off.

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I've forgotten how much I loved writing in the past.
Looking back at my posts, seeing how much I've grown over the years
the experiences that I've gone through, the lessons that I had a hard time learning
Does it make me a better person today?

Update on Life,
I have actually opened another blog because it seems that I have 'too many' viewers here
as in people that are close in my life that I do not want them to know about what's going on in my life
because, tattle tellers.

Many have happened since I've last updated, the great, good, bad and worst.
But I am happy and proud of myself for coming this far and becoming better (I hope!)

Many may asked, what happened to the relationship that seemed like a fairytale
Well, it didn't have a happy ending because the next chapter in my life doesn't need a person like him.
People that have come and go in my life, I will always appreciate the lessons that they've got me gone through and for that, I thank you all but never ever ever come into my life again.

I know now on how I want to be treated, I know now on what I am worthy of.
And for that, I am blessed to have family and friends that love me unconditionally despite me being me.

I guess that's some of the updates that I could actually post.
the rest of me is for me to know and for you to find out.

signing off.

"Just another unpost post."

thought of the day

Since finished my recurrent, I've always been thinking..
Am I doing what I'm supposed to do ?

I still have 1 more year left till my contract ends,
I love it here, but this isn't what I really wanted.
I want much more, something much more exciting, much more extreme.
I want to be able to feel like I'm going to die every single day.

That's how extreme I want my life to be.

But I have to think of the consequences.
The things that I have to give up on.
The people that I want to see everyday
and the people who worries for me everyday.

What is my future ? Only God knows.

I believe that God will provide me to provide for the people I love
I believe that God will guide me through each and every single task
I believe that God will always be by our side.

I believe that God will give me a great future.

Did it Hurt ?

will she ever get used to the hellos and the goodbyes ?

It was her own choice to do what she wanted but she had to leave, leave everything that she has advantage of.

Remembering the first time she left, she told herself to be strong but it seems that telling and being strong isn't the same. Cried her eyes out, leaving the hugs and the kisses she has every morning, leaving the smiles and laughter that they share, and leaving the chance to go through life together. The moment she stepped into a whole new world, she told herself that she will be independent, not letting anyone worry about her. Little that she knows, life decides to punch her in the face on her first baby step.

Going through all the abuse, she finally went through it with a companion. But of course, huge amount of tears were shed in silent.